This is healing for high-performing women who are done being fascinating case studies in their own therapy and ready to actually change.

You are not the problem.

You are disciplined, self-aware, emotionally intelligent, and genuinely trying. You’ve read the books, done the journaling, tracked the macros, downloaded the app, started over more Mondays than you can count, and understood on an intellectual level exactly why you do what you do — while continuing to do it anyway.

That gap between knowing and living isn’t a character flaw. It’s a design flaw in every healing system that was built for a simpler woman than you.

I spent seven years binge eating behind closed doors while building a career helping other women with their health. Not because I was a hypocrite. Because the tools I had were the wrong tools for the nervous system, the imagination, and the complexity I was actually working with.

When I stopped trying to fix myself and started trying to understand myself, everything changed. Not overnight. Not linearly. But actually, finally, for real.

That understanding became Narrative Alchemy. Then it became Divine Daddies. Then it became a whole book that I wrote because I couldn't find the one I needed.

Meanwhile, nobody told me the unhinged approach would outperform every proper one I'd tried.